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28 Dec 2019
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I have been with my Japanese boyfriend for several months. We have not met yet. We will meet in late January. He still keeps his dating profile, even though he does not log in. I deleted mine. When I asked him about it he said he lost his password so he just keeps his dating profile up. I told him it's easy to get the password just click "forgot password." He said nothing.
He often tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and to just trust him. But the last Japanese man I dated I kept quiet a d later found out he was flirting around with all kinds of girls online. My current boyfriend is 55 years old and lives near Mount Fuji.
In my country this would mean the guy is not serious about me and his answer was a bad excuse. In Japan in this normal and I ought to give him time to know me first in real life? Or is it a bad sign he is not serious?
I have been with my Japanese boyfriend for several months. We have not met yet. We will meet in late January. He still keeps his dating profile, even though he does not log in. I deleted mine. When I asked him about it he said he lost his password so he just keeps his dating profile up. I told him it's easy to get the password just click "forgot password." He said nothing.
He often tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and to just trust him. But the last Japanese man I dated I kept quiet a d later found out he was flirting around with all kinds of girls online. My current boyfriend is 55 years old and lives near Mount Fuji.
In my country this would mean the guy is not serious about me and his answer was a bad excuse. In Japan in this normal and I ought to give him time to know me first in real life? Or is it a bad sign he is not serious?
He often tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and to just trust him. But the last Japanese man I dated I kept quiet a d later found out he was flirting around with all kinds of girls online. My current boyfriend is 55 years old and lives near Mount Fuji.
In my country this would mean the guy is not serious about me and his answer was a bad excuse. In Japan in this normal and I ought to give him time to know me first in real life? Or is it a bad sign he is not serious?
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28 Dec 2019
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@spiraloflightning
No problem. I hope you stay without problem.
But, remember Japan is good place as country lol.
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@spiraloflightning You guys got to know each other with what? Online?
- English (US)
@gaomu_28 Yes online, we write each other and send voice messages and pictures and videos every day. He bought a plane ticket to come see in late January.
- Japanese
@spiraloflightning I think you gotta leave it. In japan, we could see those kinds of things. I'm not quite sure good things gonna happen or not.
You can decide on yourself.
- English (US)
@gaomu_28 Alright, thank you so much for kindly replying.
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@spiraloflightning
No problem. I hope you stay without problem.
But, remember Japan is good place as country lol.
- English (US)
@gaomu_28 lol yes. And I will remember there are 126 million people in Japan so there must be at least 1 good man for me :)
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