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damedane

15 January

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I learned that when asking someone to do something, "could you~?" is more politer than "can you~?".

Is it true to when you order at restaurants or cafe?🤔
"Can I get a cheeseburger?"
↓
"Could I get a cheeseburger?"

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midnight_star

15 January

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Our teachers always told us to use ‘may.’ It’s seemingly politer than the both of them, although I’d say any one of them could be polite if you add ‘please.’

Examples with ‘may’:
“May I get a cheeseburger?”/“May I have a cheeseburger?”

Examples with ‘please’:
“May I please get a cheeseburger?”/“May I please have a cheeseburger?”

“Could I please get a cheeseburger?”/“Could I please have a cheeseburger?”

“Can I please get a cheeseburger?”/“Can I please have a cheeseburger?”

(Also the reason I have also put ‘have’ is it seems more polite to me that ‘get,’ or at least it seems more natural to me, I’m not really sure. ‘Get’ seems more informal to me, although I don’t think it matters too much.)

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InfernoHues

15 January

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Yes, that's correct.

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layanlaya

15 January

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Yes!
If you want to use can in a polite way, it is better to add “please”

Or use “could” alone :)

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RahulV2002

15 January

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@damedane to be honest, it really does not make a difference. people use could or can interchangeably in these cases. you could also just say "can I please get a cheeseburger", or "could I get a cheeseburger please?" or other variations

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midnight_star

15 January

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Our teachers always told us to use ‘may.’ It’s seemingly politer than the both of them, although I’d say any one of them could be polite if you add ‘please.’

Examples with ‘may’:
“May I get a cheeseburger?”/“May I have a cheeseburger?”

Examples with ‘please’:
“May I please get a cheeseburger?”/“May I please have a cheeseburger?”

“Could I please get a cheeseburger?”/“Could I please have a cheeseburger?”

“Can I please get a cheeseburger?”/“Can I please have a cheeseburger?”

(Also the reason I have also put ‘have’ is it seems more polite to me that ‘get,’ or at least it seems more natural to me, I’m not really sure. ‘Get’ seems more informal to me, although I don’t think it matters too much.)

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damedane

15 January

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Thank you very much!

Recently, someone told me that "Could you~?" Is not natural, so I was a little confused😅

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I learned that when asking someone to do something, "could you~?" is more politer than "can you~?".Is it true to when you order at restaurants or cafe?🤔"Can I get a cheeseburger?"↓"Could I get a cheeseburger?" See a translation

Yes, that's correct.

Yes! If you want to use can in a polite way, it is better to add “please”Or use “could” alone :)

@damedane to be honest, it really does not make a difference. people use could or can interchangeably in these cases. you could also just say "can I please get a cheeseburger", or "could I get a cheeseburger please?" or other variations

I learned that when asking someone to do something, "could you~?" is more politer than "can you~?".

Is it true to when you order at restaurants or cafe?🤔
"Can I get a cheeseburger?"
↓
"Could I get a cheeseburger?"

See a translation

Yes!
If you want to use can in a polite way, it is better to add “please”

Or use “could” alone :)