Question
26 May
- Simplified Chinese (China)
-
English (UK)
-
English (US)
-
French (France)
Question about English (US)
Is this line only in sit-com or universal/applicable in real life? Is "What do you mean" really needed here?
A&B have been "friends" for a while, if not years, even now that they are located far away from each other. B has been eager to maintain the friendship by keeping in contact and offering help whenever possible, while A is kinda carefree or mindless in a way that A never initiates anything but being "polite" when meets B. Until one day…
A: Hey, how are you? Can I visit you? I'm in your city now.
B: You're being hilarious!
A: What do you mean?
B: Well, you haven't responded to my messages or calls for the last few months; you stood me up last time when we scheduled the meetup. Plus, you haven't paid back my money.
My question is, as the audience with omniscient perspective, I have learned that A had been mean(?) unkind(?) not a good friend to B, so could the lines JUST end with "You're being hilarious"? And understandable? What would you say if you were B? (other lines)
Is this line only in sit-com or universal/applicable in real life? Is "What do you mean" really needed here?
A&B have been "friends" for a while, if not years, even now that they are located far away from each other. B has been eager to maintain the friendship by keeping in contact and offering help whenever possible, while A is kinda carefree or mindless in a way that A never initiates anything but being "polite" when meets B. Until one day…
A: Hey, how are you? Can I visit you? I'm in your city now.
B: You're being hilarious!
A: What do you mean?
B: Well, you haven't responded to my messages or calls for the last few months; you stood me up last time when we scheduled the meetup. Plus, you haven't paid back my money.
My question is, as the audience with omniscient perspective, I have learned that A had been mean(?) unkind(?) not a good friend to B, so could the lines JUST end with "You're being hilarious"? And understandable? What would you say if you were B? (other lines)
A&B have been "friends" for a while, if not years, even now that they are located far away from each other. B has been eager to maintain the friendship by keeping in contact and offering help whenever possible, while A is kinda carefree or mindless in a way that A never initiates anything but being "polite" when meets B. Until one day…
A: Hey, how are you? Can I visit you? I'm in your city now.
B: You're being hilarious!
A: What do you mean?
B: Well, you haven't responded to my messages or calls for the last few months; you stood me up last time when we scheduled the meetup. Plus, you haven't paid back my money.
My question is, as the audience with omniscient perspective, I have learned that A had been mean(?) unkind(?) not a good friend to B, so could the lines JUST end with "You're being hilarious"? And understandable? What would you say if you were B? (other lines)
Is this line used like this in real life? I thought being hilarious is good. Or "funny" is better?
Based on the context, I could guess it's not really positive here when the previous episode showed that A always went to B for help when A needs it but rarely responds to B when B needs a favour.
Based on the context, I could guess it's not really positive here when the previous episode showed that A always went to B for help when A needs it but rarely responds to B when B needs a favour.
Answers
Read more comments
- English (US)
Yes, “hilarious” is generally a good thing. But in this instance, B is being sarcastic. It’s not meant literally. “You’re being hilarious” is basically another way of saying “you’ve got to be joking”.
B is saying there’s no way A could be serious about wanting to visit considering how badly they were treating B. So A asking to visit is so ridiculous it’s almost laughable.
Highly-rated answerer
- Simplified Chinese (China)
@bsloan7 Thank you! Also I'm not sure if "what do you mean" is really needed here.
I mean, if I were A, I'd know B is mad at me and don't have to ask why.
I mean, if I were A, I'd know B is mad at me and don't have to ask why.
- Simplified Chinese (China)
@bsloan7
So this scene can just end with "you're being hilarious"? I guess
So this scene can just end with "you're being hilarious"? I guess
- English (US)
@Pumpk-a-boo I think you’re thinking logically lol, but they most likely had the conversation continue for the sake of the tv show. Nothing can happen if the characters don’t have dialogue or if it stops before the story progresses, you know?
Also, it’s possible that A doesn’t see anything wrong with their actions. So that’s why they asked “what do you mean”.
Highly-rated answerer
- Simplified Chinese (China)
@bsloan7 Ahhhh right😂a show it is, thanks
I was hoping to learn a few lines or things that I could use in real life, and then I was like, do I really have to say "what do you mean" in real life after I've been terrible to someone😂And would I say what B said😂B seems restrained anyway
I was hoping to learn a few lines or things that I could use in real life, and then I was like, do I really have to say "what do you mean" in real life after I've been terrible to someone😂And would I say what B said😂B seems restrained anyway
- English (US)
@Pumpk-a-boo Yeah, I mean you could say it if you wanted to play dumb 😂 but that would just show that you don’t even care that you’ve been treating the other person badly. And that could also be what A was doing as well.
Highly-rated answerer
- Simplified Chinese (China)
@bsloan7 😂you're far more logical! Thank you!

[News] Hey you! The one learning a language!
Do you know how to improve your language skills❓ All you have to do is have your writing corrected by a native speaker!
With HiNative, you can have your writing corrected by native speakers for free ✍️✨.
With HiNative, you can have your writing corrected by native speakers for free ✍️✨.
Sign up
Newest Questions
- If I say "This book is my mom's," is it broken English? Do I always have to say "This is my mom's...
- The building was demolished, and the debris still remains. vs. The building was demolished, and d...
- Can I say "you look young than your age."?
- What is the opposite word of praise?
- Those of us who is interested in (a) healthにおいて、 (a)に入るのは、their?our?
Topic Questions
- The building was demolished, and the debris still remains. vs. The building was demolished, and d...
- Are these correct and natural? What else is there to do? What else is there to sing
- are these correct and natural? Where else are there towers that have a amazing history? Where...
- Does this sound natural? “I refuse chatting idly.”
- Please tell me the origins of these below: 1.Rain cats and dogs 3.January and May 4.Money talk...
Recommended Questions
- what is correct? Where are you study? Or Where do you study? Thank you.
- what should I answer with "How's your day?" "How's It going?" example plz can I say "pretty good"?
- How to respond to "I hope you are doing well"?
- When I reply to a mail from my boss, can I use "Noted with thanks "? Isn't it rude to my boss?
- If you are not the correct person, please direct me the correct one. Does this sentence sound nat...
Previous question/ Next question