I disagree that most feminists are extremists. That's just what the media pushes at us. I mean, they push super negative images of men as predators and I don't just assume all men are predators. The media always shows the extremes. Almost no Canadian woman feels she is inferior to men, which means almost every Canadian woman is a feminist. If almost every Canadian woman is a feminist then most feminists in Canada don't act in that annoying way. The fact that feminism has been twisted to mean man-hating is just another example of how women's issues get twisted to be men's issues. It's ridiculous in my opinion that this conversation turned anti-feminist so fast. Feminism is equality. It's about raising women up to be equal to men. Anyone tearing men down to be less than women are not feminists, they are misandrists, and men who tear women down to be less than men are misogynists. Those are the only definitions. The issue is agreeing that someone who is a misandrist who calls themselves a feminist is in fact representing feminism, and that is an issue with your ignorance of misandry, not the definition of feminism.