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High Standards. About Relationships.
At my early teens when I saw coupes going out on dates it looked so cool to me.
I thought that there must be a special guy, THE ONE for me.
He must be absolutely special and different from everyone else. Really smart, honest, devoted to our future family.
He will appreciate that I have high standards.
We will have a lot of fun together.
We will not be like all other people out there surrounding us because he will be much better than all guys who I ever met.

I thought that even our daily, routine life will be special for us because of the presence each other.
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Basically what I was hoping for was that my efforts to build a healthy family will be supported.
Also I was hoping that there is out there a guy who will be able to be a really good, trustworthy leader because there are many circumstances which require making good, smart decisions.
As I was growing up, learning more information about guys and relationships from the internet I discovered that my expectations about that trustworthy guy are rather unrealistic.
I'm 20 years old now. When a guy wants to go out on a date with me what is surprising to me that they are not able to even have an interesting, meaningful conversation. Even the ones who have a degree. So, whenever a guy asks me to go out I rather like spending my time on the internet.
#1 it's more interesting
#2 it's safer because I can learn from the internet and avoid mistakes and illusions in relationships.
That's not that I'm cynical.
What's actually the most frustrating to me that there is no guarantee that at one point or another the husband might take his wife for granted.
You're supposed to be strong on your own to deal with life challenges and move on.
Then it's safer to stay single.
My hope from my earlier years was basically about high standards.
What am I supposed to do now to stay true to my VALUES?

*By the way, I discovered that the internet and life in general is actually much more interesting than I would think of.
Before I didn't have this much time to be online since I was spending more time studying.
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