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I have an American friend who's 23 years old. He said that some of his male friends of same age are married. Maybe age doesn't matter much when it comes to marriage. But I was surprised that they got married "very young" because it's common for Koreans (both men and women) to get married around 30 or after 30. From a Korean perspective, those who marry in their early-mid 20s are thought to be married way too young. I know it depends on the person but is it generally common for Americans to marry in early 20s?
I have an American friend who's 23 years old. He said that some of his male friends of same age are married. Maybe age doesn't matter much when it comes to marriage. But I was surprised that they got married "very young" because it's common for Koreans (both men and women) to get married around 30 or after 30. From a Korean perspective, those who marry in their early-mid 20s are thought to be married way too young. I know it depends on the person but is it generally common for Americans to marry in early 20s?
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- Country or region United States
I feel like it depends on the region. In the north east (where I live) it would be considered early. However, I think it is more common in the south or Midwest to get married early.
- Country or region United States
I also think most Americans marry quite late, compared to Lithuanians who marry very early in their 20’s. To add to Caitlin’s response, it may also depend on the religion.
- Country or region United States
In Texas it's pretty normal to get married young, but not sure about other states. I'm 30 now and feel like I'm really behind my peers
- Country or region United States
- Country or region United States
- Country or region Korea, Republic Of
- Country or region Korea, Republic Of
@comolaflor_ It's very common for Korean women to marry WAY OVER 30. You aren't behind at all. 😉
Also, it's becoming more and more common for Koreans to not marry.
Also, it's becoming more and more common for Koreans to not marry.
- Country or region United States
@comolaflor_ What kind of deficit? Too beautiful, too bold, too smart? They do not ask, because sometimes they are afraid to be rejected or they are not ready. And you certainly would not want to waste your energy and valuable time on someone who is not ready for the commitment or is immature and unwilling to work on their character in a long run. Marriage is an adaptation to major inconveniences in your life. We worked for 12 years to make it as convenient as possible and still toiling...
- Country or region United States
In Utah and around that area, a lot of people marry around 19-24 and even have children in their early 20s, so again it depends on the area and laws.
- Country or region Korea, Republic Of
@Gummie-Frog That's interesting!
Here in Korea, like I said, many people marry around 30. It's really common for Koreans to marry after 30 and it's not rare to marry around 40 as well.
I think it's because many Koreans go to college and they commonly take a year or a couple of years off from school for various reasons like studying abroad and mandatory military service for about two years (for men). Hence, they're in their mid-late 20s by the time they work for a few years after graduation from college. Also, it's because many Koreans want to marry when they're ready for marriage.
Considering America is a big country which consists of 50 states, you're right! There will be many differences from region to region. Thank you for your response!
Here in Korea, like I said, many people marry around 30. It's really common for Koreans to marry after 30 and it's not rare to marry around 40 as well.
I think it's because many Koreans go to college and they commonly take a year or a couple of years off from school for various reasons like studying abroad and mandatory military service for about two years (for men). Hence, they're in their mid-late 20s by the time they work for a few years after graduation from college. Also, it's because many Koreans want to marry when they're ready for marriage.
Considering America is a big country which consists of 50 states, you're right! There will be many differences from region to region. Thank you for your response!
- Country or region United States
In 2021, the median age for a first marriage in the US is 28.6 for women and 30.6 for men.
- Country or region Korea, Republic Of

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